LETTING GO : Before = After
If you were a child, what will you feel if I tell you to let go of the pet bird you have in your hand?? Wouldn’t you cry?? Will you be sad?? Or, will you cast a smile and somehow feel glad?? Why choose between them when both two apply, right??!! You feel sad ‘coz you know you won’t see your pet again..But at the same time, you feel glad knowing she’s finally free and can fly up to the heaven…. It’s the same as letting go of someone you don’t want to let go of. The same hardships, the same feelings…….You may say that the child’s reason is very shallow, while that of the grown-up, you consider more reasonable. Come on! Think this over. It doesn’t really matter if it’s a child or a grown-up. What counts is not the age, nor the appearance of an entity. But, it is the feeling that both felt as they let go of something that’s special….
I, not just once, but already a lot of times, experienced a most likely situation. There are those back when I was in my childhood years, and now, that I’ve grown more matured…. And I confess, YES! One situation is different from one. One reason is different from the other reason. .. Let’s say, one is too childish, while the other one is more complicated…But that is just what we see it from now…Why??! When you were young, did you seem to care of the things around you?? NO,right?? ‘Coz you were just too concentrated with what you’re dealing with. And for you, the shallowest reason, is already a very big deal to you, since you care only about it..And now that you’ve gained some age, you tend to laugh of what you were before. How you cry easily on such an unreasonable reason. And how your cry suddenly stopped, just because of a big size red-colored lollipop….hahaha..” What a silly me!! ” you’ll say…. Compared to what you are now, the little child is not even a bit. Don’t be so bossy now! ‘Coz though their not similar that way, in another way, they are. In a more heavy way, they are alike….No matter what has chabged… No matter what the difference there is between before and today…
………… As long as the same feeling was there………
………… As long as you still feel what you felt before………
The letting go of something dear, will remain as it is,
before and after………
